Sunday 3 January 2016

A pause for thought

Mary treasured up all these things, and pondered them in her heart.  Luke 2:19

How good are you at pondering?

I rather like that word. The Greek word Luke uses means literally “to throw together”, as if you are making a conscious effort to collect up in your mind as many thoughts as you can to have a good, calm, leisurely look at them. The Message translation of this verse says that Mary “kept all these things to herself, holding them dear, deep within herself”.

To ponder, then, is to reflect, to muse, to allow something to germinate and grow in your mind, to “turn something over”, as we sometimes say. Putting it at simplest, it is to think.

Well, Mary had plenty to think about. Luke gives the impression that the immediate drama of Christmas is over. The baby Jesus is safely born. The shepherds have come and gone. Now there is a little breathing space for Mary and Joseph to get used to what has happened.

Wouldn’t you love to have been able to hear what they talked about together?…

Are we fit to be the parents of this child? What shall we do next? What do the gold and incense and myrrh really mean? What should we do with them! (No banks or safe deposits in those days!) What can the future possibly hold for us?

I don’t mean to be sentimental, but I can picture Mary, still as a statue, sitting there by Jesus’ manger and allowing the full wonder of what has happened to her to soak into her mind.

This was by no means the last time Mary pondered. In the next chapter of Luke we read the story of Jesus getting lost in the temple as a boy of 12. Every parent’s worst nightmare! “Where’s Jesus?” “I thought he was with you…” “No! I thought he was with you…!” All ends well, of course, as they discover him debating with the learned scholars in the temple. But Luke tells us this time that “his mother treasured all these things in her heart” (verse 51).

And I suspect it carried on, as Jesus grew up to be a man. Read Mark 3:31-35 and I think you’ll agree with me that she still had plenty of pondering to do – and it wasn’t always of an easy kind. Not to mention, of course, the heart-breaking John 19:25…

So back to my original question: Are you good at pondering? Do you allow yourself time and space to stop and reflect on what God is doing in your life? When you get to the end of a day do you ever stop and “throw together” into your mind the events, the words, the successes and the failures, the people you have met, the things you have heard – and seek to make some sense of them?

When I was a young Christian we were encouraged to have a daily “quiet time” in which to get alone with God and give him the breathing-space to work in our minds and hearts. We were encouraged to read a passage of scripture, to chew it over, and to pray.

Sadly, that practice seems never to have become part of many Christians’ lives. I think we are the poorer for it. Indeed, the psychiatrists and doctors (not necessarily Christians, either) suggest that we would have far fewer nervous breakdowns and heart-attacks if only we could learn to build such pondering times into our lives – to stop, perhaps to close our eyes, to breathe deeply and evenly, to simply be for a time rather than be always doing.

Life is just too frantically busy. We are daily bombarded with “input” from our computers and other devices, from the television, from papers and books, plus the normal duties and demands of life, which we never allow ourselves time to absorb and “process”.

So… as Christmas fades into our memories and a busy new routine begins, picture for a moment the pondering Mary. Think yourself inside her skin. Why not make a conscious effort to follow her example day by day? It needn’t take long – but it could make all the difference.

Dear Father in heaven, I never expect to experience anything remotely like what happened to Mary. Yet I do believe that you are at work in my life. Help me to learn the skill of pondering, of being quiet in your presence while I digest what you are saying and doing, and so to become a deeper and wiser follower of Jesus. Amen.

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