Thursday, 17 October 2024

The curse of covetousness and the joy of contentment

You shall not covet… Exodus 20:17

Jesus said, “Foxes have dens and birds have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head”. Matthew 8:20

... I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. Philippians 4:11

Do you ever feel like slinging a brick at your television? I do, but fortunately we don’t keep a ready-to-hand supply of bricks in our living-room. My problem can be summed up in a single word: adverts. The psalmist in Psalm 139:22 is talking about his enemies when he says “I hate them with a perfect hatred” (KJV), but I must confess that I tend to apply that verse to adverts; they’ve become something of a pet hate of mine.

Am I going a bit over the top? Well, yes, of course. But sometimes a little exaggeration helps to make a point. I’m sure there are adverts which are honest, realistic and sometimes genuinely amusing. But so often they are vulgar, shallow, gross - and just plain dishonest, not to mention downright stupid. (And the money that must have been poured into producing them…!)

My wife and I have a fairly elderly car which runs pretty well and is looked after efficiently and inexpensively by a friendly (if very greasy) mechanic. No problem. Ah, but wouldn’t we be much happier if we had one of those glitzy, glamorous cars which only ever seem to go sweeping through glorious scenery on empty, sunlit roads – and which never get snarled up in traffic jams or scraped by a careless driver talking on his phone instead of concentrating on the road? Answer: no, not really, not once the initial buzz has worn off.

And as for “must-read” books, “must-see” films, “must-have” clothes, etc, etc, etc… grrr! Who has decided on that “must”? Oh, and that very pleasant drink called coffee – well, pleasant certainly, but it’s just a drink, isn’t it, for goodness’ sake?

All right, I’ve calmed down now, and I invite you to ponder the three Bible passages at the top. They touch on the related themes of covetousness and contentment

You shall not covet - Exodus 20:17.

This is the last of the Ten Commandments, and it’s particularly interesting because it’s the only one which is about attitudes rather than actions; coveting is something that goes on in your mind and heart.

But though that’s so, its great danger is that it so readily leads to actions, even to sins like murder, stealing and adultery. Even if we don’t give way outwardly, it turns our personalities crabby and shrivelled, over-preoccupied with what our lives might be, rather than encouraging us to roll up our sleeves and get on with the far more fulfilling job of living Christlike lives in the situations we are actually in.

A question to ponder: are miserly, acquisitive people ever truly happy?

Jesus said, “Foxes have dens and birds have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head” - Matthew 8:20.

Jesus is speaking to an over-enthusiastic lawyer who has made a rather rash pledge: “Teacher, I will follow you wherever you go”. And it’s as if he is saying, “Well, that’s wonderful. But you need to be aware that if you do indeed follow me wherever I go you must be prepared to sacrifice any or all of the normal comforts of life which most people take for granted. Are you sure you are ready for that, really ready?” (Matthew doesn’t tell us how the lawyer responded to the challenge…)

But we get the point, which is for us as much as for the lawyer: following Jesus is indeed wonderful, but count the cost! Among other things, say goodbye to materialism. Don’t even begin to swallow the lies of the slick advertising executives; they will only lead you astray.

... I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. Philippians 4:11

This, of course, is the apostle Paul, writing to a church for which he had a particular affection. He has been going through a hard time, and the believers in Philippi have given him material help, for which he is grateful. But he adds an interesting note: he is not simply “content” with what he has, but he has “learned the secret of being content”.

From which two things emerge. First, contentment is a “secret”, not easy to define or recognise; and, second, it has to be “learned”, implying that it doesn’t come easily, and certainly not automatically. We don’t know how well-off Paul was in his pre-Christian days, but quite likely he was fairly prosperous, so to have to adjust to his new life as a Chrisian (see 2 Corinthians 6:3-10!) must have required some determinedly gritted teeth, to put it mildly.

Over all this, of course, hovers the great saying of Jesus: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” For us that’s pretty much a figure of speech – we don’t expect to have to take up the cross in a literal sense. But for those who first heard it, it was anything but - it was stark, literal reality…

Jokes aside, the advertising industry, dedicated to the false gods of greed, jealousy and discontent, seduces us into worshipping an idol. Well, we know what we must do about that, don’t we? Somebody pass me a brick, please…

Father, I am so prone to be seduced by the idol of materialism or self-centredness. Please forgive me! And please help me to learn the precious secret of contentment, that Jesus alone might be my all-in-all. Amen.

The Greek philosopher Socrates (c 470-399 BC) is reported to have said, as he strolled through a market in Athens, “Who would have thought there could be so many things I can do without?”

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